Sunday, November 17, 2024

Family

 If I am going to stay honest, I have to admit to enjoying watching the head explosions on the Left, concerning the election.  Sitting in cars, screaming like banshees.  Women shaving their heads and swearing off intimate relations with their husbands for the next four years.  Main Stream Media throwing 3-year-old style tantrums at each announcement of Cabinet positions in the upcoming administration.  Really?  I have seen elementary school playground fights that make more sense.

So, putting politics aside for now, I find that there are some other things that need my attention and are far more important to my family than the bs that passes for news these days.

My evenings and a day or two in the average week are spent organizing the genealogy information I have found online.  And searching for more.  Most of my family finds this dry as dust, but I would hope that eventually some of them might like to know where their ancestors came from.

In that same vein, my son asked me to write down the family stories that I had related to him as well as any others I remembered.  Some are rather serious like my paternal grandmother refusing to marry my grandfather until he signed a paper stating that he would abstain from drinking liquor.  He signed.  They married and went on to become parents of nine children.  Grandma was serious about this because sadly, her father was drunk a good share of the time.

Other stories are my memories of many of my parents and grandparents as well as my aunts and uncles who have all passed on.  I enjoy sharing my memories with my kids, especially since my family has many stories that are funny.  Like when my Dad and his brothers decided it might be fun to hoist the new car of the local banker, who was bragging about that car ad nauseum, onto the roof of his garage. (Keeping in mind that some sporty kinds of cars back in the 1920's weighed considerably less than they might now.)  Dad said the look on the banker's face when he realized where his car was, was worth it all!  We were blessed with good senses of humor in my family.  

Years ago, my Dad gave me a rather large cardboard box full of old photos.  I have since sorted them into large manila envelopes, one for each person and for family groups.  But most have no notation as to who the people in the photos are or what occasion the picture was taken for in the first place.  It occurred to me that when I am gone, my family will have no idea who is in many of the photos.

So this week I am digging out my scrapbooking supplies.  I am not talented enough in the craft of scrapbooking to fashion my own albums from scratch.  So, I am going the easy route.  Background papers will be cut to the size of 8.5 x 11.  Photos, descriptions and maybe a little bit of fru fru can go on each page, which will then fit inside a sheet protector and be organized in large 3-ring binders.  Hopefully, this will give my kids and grands something to show them who all of those relatives were.

I know that I maybe should be adding to the deep pantry stash, but I feel like there is a need to show the younger generation where they came from.  Some won't care.  But some might.  And for those who have an interest, the efforts on my part could just inspire someone to continue on with our family history.

I hope so.

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  2. (Sorry Vicki, missed a word). Vicki, the family stories are what brings the dry-as-dust family genealogy record to life.

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    1. Don...I don't want to leave my family just a collection of places and dates. I want them to know how my grandma, on a cold Minnesota morning, would light the fire in her cast iron kitchen stove and then sit on the oven lid to warm up, cuddling the child who would become my Dad. Or how another grandfather raised a couple of bear cubs after the mother bear was killed. So many stories that bring the people to life. :)

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  3. Great ideas, Vicki. And it has been pretty funny.
    You all be safe and God bless.

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  4. LindaG...Guess I consider the family stuff as part of preps. Take good care and may God bless you, too.

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  5. Vicki - you've been the one to introduce me to the joys of genealogy. I'm at it again. A cousin and his wife just visited last week and brought a family album dating back to the 1890s. We share the same paternal grandparents. It's been fun going through it. I wish there were some stories included with the photos.

    My skills aren't great but I managed to take photos of the photo album to start getting our family history digitalized. Small steps.
    Cheers,
    SJ now in California

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    1. SJ...It is a joy to find someone with similar interests. And the family album you have is a treasure! And how nice that you can duplicate the photos for your enjoyment. I probably wouldn't have thought to add the stories if one of my kids hadn't been interested. Have fun with it. I sure am. :)

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  6. I enjoy genealogy and my daughter seems to like hearing some of the info I find. We have a funny story in my family of my uncle, who with friends while in high school, somehow put the principals car up on the school roof as a prank. This would have been like 1960ish, LOL.

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    1. One Family...Wow! Another car on the roof story! I love it! Pass the stories on. They are too good to be lost.

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  7. Thanks for doing this, Mom. Not only will I enjoy it, but it will be fun to show my kids.

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    1. That's the reason I am doing this, Son. I want my family to know that they came from people with good work ethics, strong values and working senses of humor!

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  8. Hi Vicki
    Genealogy is interesting but it’s the stories that bring it to life. My niece is working on my mom’s side of the family. Mamas dad immigrated from England but we don’t know much and there’s no stories because he died young and those who could have told us about him are gone now too.
    I don’t think young people realize how important their history is until they’re older and by then the ones who could have told them are gone.
    I believe you’re leaving your family something more precious than gold.
    Take care and be safe…Jan

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    1. Jan...You get it, don't you! Sometimes I think I may have lost my mind when I am knee deep in names and dates and statistics. But then I realize that the name and dates of an ancestor leads to his part in our Revolutionary War, or the name and dates of my grandmother leads to a description of the woman who raised 9 children on practically nothing but hard work.

      I am delighted that a couple of my grands have asked about my research. And I know that the details are important to my adult children. And that's why I do what I do. I especially enjoy it when others tell me that family history is important to them as well. It would be so easy to just let the past die, but then how would we know why we are what we are. (Soapbox tossed back into the corner now. :) )

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