Sometimes I think we have forgotten how to have fun.
We get caught up in news reports and podcasts and YouTube videos that are screaming at the top of their lungs how we are in such trouble that we all will surely die. Soon.
I know that I have been guilty of that sort of behavior. Previous rants on this blog are the proof. And chances are pretty good that another rant or two could show up here.
But a couple of things happened yesterday that got me to thinking about this.
Two of my kids spent time with their Mom. I understand they are busy with their families and their jobs, so finding time for visits isn't easy. I so enjoyed seeing them, hugging them and hearing about what is happening in their lives.
And secondly, I received an email from a friend who lives in another part of this great country. He sent me photos of the landscape in his area, including orchards in full bloom and mountains in the background. We don't have much for mountains here in Minnesota. The view was a treat.
Both experiences were fun. Brightened my day. Left me with smiles.
Seems to me we need more fun and less fear and anxiety. Granted, we do need to know what is going on around us. We can't be ready for the bad stuff that happens unless we pay attention.
What we do not need is to be living in fear. So many of those in charge prefer to keep us fearful. Scared people are much easier to control. Folks who are confident and positive in attitude don't tend to knuckle under to every elite or politician who wants total control.
We spend time and money preparing for whatever comes at us that is not good. We can also enjoy this life we are blessed to have.
Don't forget how to have fun.
AMEN!!! Shabbat Shalom
ReplyDeleteThank you! And a happy blessing to you.
ReplyDeleteToday was my fun day for sure. Time outside running Puppygirl until her tongue was askew. Came home and detangled her from some burrs. Then off to drive the 'oh so old' car that's been in my family since I was a preteen. Big smile on my face as I'm chugging along with a big ol' US made engine. And then a long phone call with a dear friend. What a day.
ReplyDeleteThanks as always Vicki for your posts. Cheers,
SJ now in California
Thank you for your comments, SJ...I can picture how much you enjoyed your day. We really need these kinds of days now. My fun days are kids and grands. Even just a phone call can make a day happier. But the best is when I get to FaceTime. Especially when that includes going for a walk with one if my Grandpups. :)
DeleteFun is so subjective, but my experience shows the best fun is that that requires no large sum of money, allows quiet moments of reflection, and fruitful conversation. It's God's way of giving us relief from the troubles of life, and always a blessing.
ReplyDeleteYour definition of fun and mine are alike, Jess. I'm not one of those people who needs alcohol, rowdy people and drama for fun. Family is fun. My recliner and a good movie are fun. Good conversations are fun. You are spot on about God giving us relief in this way. True, that.
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ReplyDeleteLess worry and fear, more fun. Sounds good to me. Fun changes as you get older though. These days a quiet time on my porch listening to and watching the birds is fun. I love to read. As you get older the fun things you liked aren’t as easy or you’re just not able to do them at all. I think canning is fun but I need help with that now too. Fortunately my daughter is helpful in that respect. My family is on board with being prepared. Keep on stacking it high and have a great week with some fun included….Jan
Jan...I so agree that the fun changes with age! Canning isn't much fun anymore here, either. But there are so many other things that make me smile and bring me joy. I think that whatever takes away the fear and gives us peace is a good thing. Books. Fabric. Yarn. Genealogy research. Kids, grands, great grands. All do it for me. Those who wish to keep me scared and compliant can just go pound sand!!
DeleteYes Vicki, fun should be like experiencing the curiosity, joy and wonder of a child again and leaving memories of contentment and peacefulness. Little things that are not expensive. And much of the joy is giving joy to others.
ReplyDeleteDon...Can you imagine what our world would be like of folks still had that childlike wonder? As a kid, happiness was an apple from our small orchard, a swim in the local lake, a walk in the woods, the affection of my dog. Those are the things remain in memory.
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